Should the bridal shower be a surprise?

Hosting a?surprise bridal shower is up to you. Depending on the bride?it may not be a good choice (particularly in regards to the guest list, you may need her to give it to you!). The bride?may want to be able to choose who is invited and you will need to consult her schedule to find a date, her wedding is right around the corner so her weekends may be booked up. Many brides may even assume they will have a shower and approach you with the idea. If you do decide to host a surprise shower, be sure to contact the bride & groom's mother to find out what family members to invite. If a surprise bridal shower is something you really want to do you?can always?surprise the bride with a second shower with only her closest of friends or just the family.